What is Your Favorite Part of Being a Mentor? "I love connecting with other people, and I also like the opportunity to provide a listening ear. I am too eager to "problem solve" in my personal relationships, and I feel that being a mentor allows me an opportunity to practice just being there for someone, rather than actively trying to solve problems or find solutions. Basically, growing alongside someone." - GM How Has Being a Mentor Changed You? "It is good to be there with people for just a few steps of their life journey. I've met so many wonderful mentees and mentors along the way. They have so much to share and give and value people so much. Through the awkwardness and silences... tears and hugs... depression and despair, followed by hope and new direction. Life stories, walking side by side, learning from each other." - NC What was Challenging About Being a Mentor? "Not coming off as being superior" - ME "Showing up every week - sometimes feeling like I had nothing to offer but then staying 'til late because we got to talking about so many interesting things." - LG "Something I am learning in multiple areas of my life is how to establish good and healthy boundaries. The classes this last semester were very helpful for me and hopefully my mentee as well. It is definitely a work in progress!" - SH What Would You Tell Prospective Mentors to Prepare [...]
Money Management saw some great success with the lead of a volunteer Financial Planner. Participants saw new progress each week with financial management. “I have learned a lot about the importance of giving and have been able to pinpoint where a lot of our money is going” said one participant. All this knowledge wasn’t the end, though. Each participant was given the opportunity to apply for our micro-finance program where Love INC matched up to $200 worth of funds put toward paying down debt (each term). Four participants have been able to reap the benefits of this program so far. One woman completed her third term of classes and was rewarded with the maximum $500 money match, which went toward car repair debts. During this time, she also decided to sell her house. Though giving up her home was difficult, she feels that it is a sound financial decision. Another woman graduated from the program and received help with a dental bill along with paying back a court fee. Yet another class member found long-awaited answers to prayer when she managed to secure a job shortly after starting the class and finally found relief from debilitating joint pain with the help of physical therapy. Another participant paid down $200 worth of credit card debt, and put a guest speaker’s words into action by talking to her creditors about her interest rates. After speaking with them, she was able to lower the interest rate on all of her debts! It’s been [...]
It was a rewarding season with some great victories for the spring/summer Relational Ministry classes. This time around, eleven people participated in the three-month Money Management and Nutrition courses. Karla McMellon led the Nutrition class, covering a new tenet of healthy living every week. One participant noted that “food groups—what they are and the effects of both healthy and unhealthy foods” was the most helpful part of the class. With this information, it’s no wonder everyone had something encouraging to say about how beneficial the class was. “I have not taken a nutrition class like this—[Karla] was wonderful with all her information.” “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 ESV
As a follow-up, we wanted to share some exciting new developments with Dolores and her husband’s journey to get back on their feet! You’ll recall from a post back in March that Dolores and her husband had been attending our Jobs for Life class. In that class, they were encouraged by their teacher and mentor to actively engage in the process of sharing their God-given talents with the community through their job search efforts. Both Dolores and her husband embraced the support and were faithful to throw themselves out there, an action that led them to a networking connection with Coffee Cottage where Dolores got to have her artwork on display for April’s First Friday. Dolores’ husband also managed to score a job at a local fast-food restaurant shortly after. Since then, we’ve learned that Dolores ended up selling two pieces of art and now has art on display in the walk-way between Critter Cabana and Newberg Music Center until September. What’s more, later in September her work will be available for viewing in the artisanal next to Janis Jewelry and Gifts! We are encouraged by this couple’s willingness to ask for help and take the assistance that is provided for them with an optimistic attitude. We are confident the Lord will continue to direct their steps. If you are interested in purchasing art from Dolores, message us or stop by her show on Friday evening. “Ask and it will be given; seek and you will find; knock and the [...]
Newberg FISH Emergency Service Food Pantry has generously donated food vouchers for Relational Ministry participants in the Nutrition course. These vouchers will get them $20 of meat and vegetables each week they attend the course. This is another great step for our participants to practice healthy habits. We can't wait to see how they put these vouchers to good use!
We are so grateful that Karla McMellon from the McMellon Center for Nutrition is back once again to teach Nutrition to our Relational Ministry class! We can't wait to gain some wisdom and healthy habits in the next 8 weeks!
“The Love INC course we just completed was so much more than we expected,” says Jason with his fiancée Katie. “Our lives have changed, our contact with Love INC has turned our lives around… we now have a future!” Relational Ministry, available to all Love INC clients, is taught by professionals in the Newberg community. Each term contains ten-week courses that teach money management, job skills, nutrition, relationship development and much more. Each participant meets with a mentor to walk together through the courses. Jason and Katie began living together, both with teenage sons and their child they had together. “We were treading water. Low income, high rent and getting farther behind every day.” “I benefitted so much from [Relational Ministry]” commented Jason. “I saw and improved deficiencies in my job experience. I became aware of and improved personal habits that were hindering my relationship with other people. My relationship with Katie improved greatly, and frankly we would not plan now to get married had it not been for Love INC and this program.” “Our mentor saved our relationship,” said Katie. “I learned how to communicate with our three kids in our home. What a difference! And in addition, I learned job acquisition skills that I need as I return to work. We learned money management skills setting us up for the future. We still have a long way to go but we are on the way.” “I have really enjoyed coming along side this couple” exclaimed their mentor, Mary. [...]
“Briana” has been one of the most enjoyable and dedicated students Love INC has ever had in the Relational Ministry program. Briana has attended over 50 classroom sessions since 2012, equaling over 75 hours of time devoted to learning about the Christian faith, money management, nutrition, physical fitness, and healthy relationships. In addition to the educational benefits, she’s blessed and been blessed by mentor relationships with several Christian women from the community. Taking everything she’s learned, and with the support of her mentors, Briana has been successfully working towards saving for a down payment on a home. To cap off her time in the Relational Ministry program recently, Briana celebrated reaching her final Money Match goal. Thanks to the generous supporters of Love INC who have made our $1:1 possible, she is now $500 closer to her home ownership dream! “Dishonest money dwindles away, but whoever gathers money little by little makes it grow.”- Prov. 13:11
“Kristina and Jeremiah” are the latest Relational Ministry participants rejoicing at the accomplishment of their Money Match goal! Back in September 2015, Kristina and Jeremiah joined the Relational Ministry program between a rock and a hard place in their lives, working full-time but struggling to make ends meet with crippling debt staring them down. As they have gone on to take the Money Management and Jobs for Life courses, they have experienced a rebirth in their souls, through acknowledging the issues they face and entrusting them into the loving hands of God. The results have been miraculous. Recently Kristina and Jeremiah used their tax return to pay a substantial amount of debt back to a former landlord. Love INC pitched in our additional maximum contribution and now Kristina and Jeremiah are really close to experiencing complete freedom from their creditor. As we ceremoniously cut the check for Kristina, she cried and overflowed with gratitude, thanking God and Love INC for the opportunity. The best part—she was excited for others in her class to experience the same success and joy as they strive to reach their goals! “Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose.”- Philippians 2:2
The first person in our Relational Ministry program to reach the maximum money match goal is “Julia”! Julia has faithfully attended the relational ministry program for the past several years, often doing so in spite of challenging life circumstances. Julia has weathered car accidents, unemployment, cancer, and most recently a series of home appliance issues. But no longer! Julia and her husband embraced the money match challenge, saved $500, and with the help of a dollar for dollar match by Love INC, purchased a reliable washer, dryer, and refrigerator from Krohn’s Appliance Services here in Newberg. They both were so excited by the success of their hard work and are looking forward to seeing how God uses the program to bless their peers walking alongside them in the classes. “What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.”- Saint Augustine